Pamela Kay Arnold, 55, Butler, MO, died Sunday, November 9, 2008 at Willow Lane Nursing Center in Butler. Funeral services 10:00 AM Wednesday, November 12, 2008 at the Atkinson Chapel, Adrian, MO. Burial in Crescent Hill Cemetery, Adrian. Memorial contributions may be made to Heartland Hospice, 4 West Ohio Street, Suite 2-B, Butler, MO 64730.

Pam was born July 19, 1953 in Council Bluffs, IA, the daughter of Dale and Gwenith (Haak) Stetina. She has a son, David Arnold.

Pam was a loving mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and friend. She was always willing to help others. She enjoyed spending time with family, friends, and outside when not at work. Pam took great pride in her work at UPS. She worked hard and made many new friends there. She had many long days and always was eager to come home and share with family and friends about how she loved it.

Pam also took great pride and joy with her grandchildren. She always made the happiest memories for them having picnics, decorating for the holidays and playing. She was loved dearly and will never be forgotten.

Pam was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by one son, David Arnold and his wife Wendy of Drexel, MO; two sisters, Karen Gilliam, Rolla, MO and Michelle Stetina; three brothers, Lonnie Stetina and his wife Debbie of Noel, MO, Ronnie Stetina of Opelika, AL, and Terry Bahr and wife Sandra of OK. ; two grandchildren, Britney and Brien Arnold and a number of nieces and nephews.